Charisma is generally regarded as the positive and compelling connection and influence that some singles have with others beyond the physical presence, or presents, that God gave us. Our parents often referred to it as "charm."

Being involved in singles groups for more than 25 years, I have interviewed hundreds of single men and women regarding how they felt about relationships and witnessed thousands more. I have been especially fascinated with the traits that cause a woman to be attractive to a man, beyond physicality. What is it that sets her apart as being "relationship material," possibly even "the one" for him? More on this article ...

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